Sex. Its so over-rated.
I live in a society that holifies sex. Its mistakenably considered the suprem achivment of one's relationship with another. All the guys are just looking to have good sex. :hump
But I'm not like it. Don't get me wrong - I love sex. Its great, just over-rated. Love is so much better. The prime achivment of one's relationship, I think, is to be able to sleep cuddled bare-naked with one another, talking all through the night without having sex. Now that's love. Being satisfied with one's touch of my skin, not my inner organs.
So I meet them, one by one. And their all great and wonderfull, but why, oh why, do they have to talk about sex all the time. They say their looking for love, but as one put it "but without any sexual attraction, its just not worth it"(). I agree. Sexual appeal is VERY important, but you can see one's sexual appeal even without dressing him down.
Damn those guys.
I went out on a last night, and it was really great. An hour after returning home from it I get this SMS from him "Wierd... we didn't even talked about sex..."
and I say So what?! who cares!!! sex will come, efventually.
Damn! how hard is it to find one decent guy who's not looking ofr sex all the time...